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Wednesday

What Your Suitcase Is Trying to Tell You -- Tips to Prioritize Your Life

Have you ever put your suitcase on the scale at the airport and discovered it was overweight? 

I recently helped my daughter and her husband pack for an overseas move. The airline allowed two checked bags each weighing less than 50 pounds. Even half a pound over the limit would cost them dearly. 

As they prepared to fill their suitcases, they made three piles—Yes, No, and Maybe. In the Yes pile they put necessities—clothing, personal care items, and important paperwork. In the No pile they put the non-essentials—books they weren’t really interested in reading, older clothes they didn’t wear any more, and a game they had never played. In the Maybe pile they put items they liked, but weren’t vital to day-to-day living—a souvenir coffee mug, decorative tableware, and some food items. 


They packed the important items in the suitcases first and filled most of the space, then they filled in the remaining space with items from the Maybe pile. The No pile went straight to the trashcan. 

My days are very similar to my kids’ suitcases. And I’ve realized I can use the same principles they applied to their suitcases to help me decide how to spend them. 

First, I can only cram so much into a day before I get into trouble. Overfilling my calendar is always counter-productive. It guarantees I’ll eventually crash and burn. Exhaustion, frustration, and inefficiency are common side effects of overloaded days. 

Second, I must choose wisely what I put into a day. Some activities, like reading my Bible, caring for my family, working, and attending church, are vital. I can include other activities, like talking with a friend, surfing the Internet, or reading a book after I’ve completed my most important responsibilities. Other pursuits are simply time wasters I’d be better off tossing aside. 

Third, sometimes, despite my best efforts, my days become overweight. When my kids were packing their suitcases, they knew it would be wise to check the weight before we got to the airport. I pulled out the bathroom scale, and, as we suspected, the biggest suitcase was seriously overweight. 

“I guess we’re going to have to leave some stuff behind,” my son-in-law said. He removed a few of the Maybe items, but it was still too heavy. 

“Why don’t we try to redistribute the weight?” I suggested. We pulled a few books out of the suitcase and exchanged them for clothing and shoes from a less full suitcase. When we weighed the heaviest suitcase again, we were delighted to find it was a few pounds lighter. The true test, however, would come at the airport. 

Some of my days resemble my son-in-law’s suitcase. In order to be able to manage them, I must remove some things altogether and redistribute others. The litmus test I use to determine what has to go comes from Oswald Chambers: “The great enemy of the life of faith in God is not sin, but the good which is not good enough. The good is always the enemy of the best.” It’s easy to fill my days with good things, but when the good things begin to crowd out the best things, I know it’s time to reevaluate and reorder my priorities. 

When I pray, God shows me what to remove and what to consider delegating to someone else. This frees me up to spend my time on what’s best in my life right now—the tasks God has called me and only me to do. 


Now back to the luggage. When our turn came at the baggage counter, my son-in-law hoisted the biggest suitcase on the scale, and we held our collective breath. For a few seconds the red numbers jumped around—51.2, then 49.8, then 50.9. Finally it blinked three times and was still—50.0

Whew! Not an ounce to spare. Our happy smiles and high fives made the ticket agent grin as she slapped a sticker around the handle and waved us on. 

What about you? Are your days overloaded? Or perhaps you’ve filled them with good things that are squeezing out the best God has for you. Prayerfully ask the Lord to help you evaluate how you’re filling your days. Commit to make the necessary changes, and live each day seeking God’s best.





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Sunday

Making Sense of the Senseless

Copyright Kristen Hatcher
I’ve got news for us. 

It’s not about us.

We all wonder why bad things enter our lives. A deep loss. A wayward child. A health crisis. A betrayal. 

We wonder if these trials are punishments. Judgment come home to roost. Just desserts for some long ago sin. And while God does judge unconfessed sin, there’s another reason trials drag their burning tentacles across our lives, and it has nothing to do with us. 

“If you are going to be used by God,” Oswald Chambers says,” he will take you through a multitude of experiences that are not meant for you at all. They are meant to make you useful in his hands and to enable you to understand what transpires in other souls . . .”

The Apostle Paul says it, too, ” Praise be to the God of all comfort . . . who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God” (2 Cor. 1:3-4).

I will never forget the day God used another suffering soul to minister grace to me. I was mourning. Not a physical death, but the death of a dream I had for one of my children. Overwhelmed by the reality of the situation, I couldn’t see past it into the hope of the future. When I shared my heartbreak with this kind soul, she reached out her gentle hand and ministered hope to me.

“Let me tell you about my son . . .” she said. And by sharing in the fellowship of my suffering, she comforted me. She had no answers to give other than the hope of God who loves our children more than we do, but by making herself vulnerable by sharing her story, she lifted the burden that seemed so overwhelming. She redeemed part of her suffering by entering into mine.

“For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows (2 Cor. 1:5).


In the months since that turning point, God has been faithful to speak words of truth into my life, answer my prayers in remarkable ways, and bring beauty from ashes. He has restored my hope and strengthened my faith. And he has shown me that it’s not about me.

Now it’s my turn to share the gift of hope with someone whose heart is hurting.

Will you join me?

Has God used someone else’s trials to strengthen your faith? I hope you’ll share your experience with someone else who's hurting. And you can bless the rest of us by leaving a comment below. If you’re reading by email, click here and scroll down to leave a comment.





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Monday

Sacrificing a Dream -- Would you do it?


In a rescue that made news around the globe, Naday Ben-Yehuda, an Israeli man, was close to accomplishing his dream of scaling the summit of Mt. Everest when he stumbled upon Aydin Irmak, an American of Turkish origin, in the darkness. Irmak had already reached the peak of Mt Everest and was descending when he collapsed.

With weather conditions and his own chance to reach the summit deteriorating rapidly, Ben-Yehuda had a choice to make--press on, or help the stricken climber?

In an interview with the Associated Press, "Ben-Yehuda said his military training in Israel helped shape his reflexive decision to rescue Irmak. 'You never leave a friend in the field,' he said." The Israeli carried Irmak for hours to safety in a lower-altitude camp.


Ben-Yehuda is a living example of John 15:13: "Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." Although Ben-Yehuda didn't sacrifice his life, he chose to lay down his right to accomplish his dream.

Oswald Chambers, in My Utmost for His Highest, says this:

"As soon as you begin to live the life of faith in God, fascinating and luxurious prospects will open up before you, and these things are yours by right; but if you are living the life of faith, you will exercise your right to waive your rights, and let God choose for you."

He goes on to say, "The great enemy of the life of faith in God is not sin, but the good which is not good enough. The good is always the enemy of the best."

Reaching the top of Mt. Everest after training for months or years would have been good.


Saving a man's life was best.

You may not be scaling the summit of Mt. Everest like Naday Ben-Yehuda, but you have an agenda every day. So do I. Are we willing to lay down that good agenda for God's greater one if the opportunity presents itself?

Do you think Ben-Yehuda will come to the end of his life and say, "Man, I wish I had left Irmak behind and climbed to the top."?

I think not.

I wonder how God will use us if we  say "yes" to the best even though it means saying "no" to the good?


(Wetterstein mountains in Bavaria)





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• Is my situation hopeless?
• If God already knows what he’s going to do, why bother to pray? 
• Why have you allowed this to happen to me? 
• No one appreciates what I do. Why shouldn’t I quit? 

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