A tomboy who preferred denim to designer, Kylie was
never a “girly girl.” Although she wasn’t particularly tall, Kylie had, in her
words, “freakishly long legs” compared to the rest of her body. And she was
rail thin. By eighth grade, she towered over most of her classmates who made
fun of her size and called her giraffe.
But adults saw her potential: “Look at those
long legs of yours. You could be a supermodel someday!”
In her book, I’m
No Angel, Kylie reflects on the power of words: “Adults don’t always
realize the profound effect their words can have on young kids—girls in
particular. These people mean well, of course. What harm could possibly come
from telling a little girl she’s pretty? Technically, none—unless that’s the
only affirmation she ever hears . . . the only reason she gets attention.”
Although her family knew nothing about modeling,
they were supportive of Kylie's interest. When they moved to Las Vegas, Kylie
got her first break—a contract with the Envy Agency, one of the biggest in the
city.
“I thought if
I could make it big as a model,” Kylie says, “I could prove something to all
those people who had teased me at school.”
Kylie at 13-years-old |
Kylie didn’t feel guilty about striking those
provocative poses; she just saw it as part of the job. “After all the teasing
I’d endured at school, it felt good to have someone complimenting me on my
looks,” she says. “The more positive feedback I got, the more willing I was to
push the envelope.”
When she became a freshman, and her 5’9” body began
developing hips and a bust line, the boys no longer called her giraffe. The modeling agencies also
began viewing her differently. In the modeling world, Kylie explains, “anything
over 30 inches (hip size) is considered curvy, and curvy doesn’t play well on
the runway—especially in high fashion, where being rail thin is considered the
ideal.”
She heard horror stories of models having their
hipbones shaved or lower ribs removed, and most of the models crash dieted, did
cleansing programs, and purged. Kylie began to feel the pressure. . .
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Dear Lori
ReplyDeleteI am looking forward to read the rest of Kylie's story. It is unfortunately such a glamorous, yet competitive and terribly sad and lonely career. I agree that the messages we repeatedly hear as children, plays a major role in how we see ourselves as adults.
Much love XX
Mia
It really is a wake up call, Mia, to be so careful with our words to our children. We can speak words of blessing and vision, or words that can send them down a completely dangerous path. Thanks for stopping by today :)
DeleteLike Mia, I'm looking forward to hearing the rest of this story. The pressure is high to look and act and dress a certain way - and we see the results in the news when we don't feel like we measure up. I love the song "More Beautiful You" by Johnny Diaz.. It gives me hope. Blessings. Janet
ReplyDeleteJanet,
DeleteI love that song, too, and appreciate its very biblical message. I love the reminder that God fashioned us exactly the way we are for his good purposes and to glorify himself. Thanks for stopping by today :)
This is a great story, and I'm also looking forward to hearing the rest of it! Thank you for sharing this! It's so important to remind girls and women that we are beautiful because we are children of God made in his image! I'm writing a series on modesty right now and that's a big part of it.
ReplyDelete~Jaimie
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Thank you so much for this post! Such an inspiring story, and I look forward to reading the rest. I am so thankful to have found your blog today. It has been a real blessing and encouragement to me. God bless you!
ReplyDeleteTwo things, I'm so glad I have this book on my Kindle to read. Secondly, you were less than an hour from me, and I could have met you. If my email hadn't gotten overflowed, I would have read this the day it was posted. :( I hate that I missed your Everyone Has a Story event because I'm a huge fan of that idea!
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad that you're sharing Kylie's story.