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Sunday

What Everyone Needs to Know About Kidnapping



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Fourteen-year-old Elizabeth Smart was kidnapped from her Salt Lake City, Utah, bedroom on June 5, 2002. She was found alive nine months later in a Salt Lake City suburb. Brian David Mitchell and Wanda Ileen Barzee were later sentenced and convicted. They both received life sentences for their crime. 
 
God's Word is not silent on the topic of kidnapping. In fact, it talks a lot about kidnapping of a very different sort--one that is actually beneficial.

To kidnap, or take captive, according to dictionary.com, means to take or hold as a prisoner, especially in war; or to keep in confinement or restraint.

 In 2 Corinthians 10:5, God instructs us to “take captive every thought and make it obedient to Christ.”

Action movies always show the bad guys sneaking around in the dark with chloroform-laced handkerchiefs waiting to spring upon innocent victims. It’s a little harder to imagine kidnapping a thought, but the principles are very similar.


Would-be kidnappers often wait in the dark for their victims.
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In my life, thoughts that need kidnapping also frequent the darkness. Late at night, as I’m awaiting sleep, fears, doubts, and questions often assail me. Many times these ideas cast looming shadows on my faith and are powerful and frightening. God's Word says the best way to protect myself against them is to kidnap them. Take them captive to the obedience of Christ.

Kidnappers sometimes kidnap victims in response to a wrong that person has committed. They feel their victims deserve to be kidnapped. Many of my thoughts certainly deserve to be kidnapped. They steal my peace, undermine my faith, and cause me to question the work of God in my life. Sometimes these thoughts invite me to wonder if God hears my prayers and question if he cares enough to act on my behalf. These are thoughts God deems worthy of kidnapping.

Sometimes kidnappers chase their victims.
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They lead them on merry chases down dark alleys, through seedy parts of town, and into places they’d ordinarily never go.

My thoughts do the same. When fear strikes, it takes me from a headache, to an MRI, to an oncology ward, to a funeral.

 When doubt assaults, an unknown cell phone number becomes a mistress, which leads to a divorce, leaves me discarded and alone for the rest of my life. 

This is how our thoughts work, and this is why God commands us to take every thought captive.

So once we capture our thoughts, what do we do with them? Surprisingly, Dictionary.com provides a very biblical answer:

1.  Take our thoughts captive, because we are in a war. The war is waging in our minds, and the prize is our hearts. Every sin, whether it’s hidden, like fear, or blatant, like adultery, begins in the mind. Eve first questioned whether God had told her the truth about the fruit. Likewise, King David entertained the thought of adultery long before he committed the act. If we battle as though we are in a war, we fight intentionally.
 

2.  Take our thoughts captive for the purpose of confining and restraining them. Doubt, fear, lust, anger, jealousy, bitterness, and lying have no place in the life of a Christian. God commands us to subject our thoughts to him.

 







Taking every thought captive doesn’t require a ski mask and a pistol, but it does require a sword.
 

Ephesians 6:17 instructs us to arm ourselves with the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God. As we read, learn, and memorize scripture, we acquire a powerful weapon with which to fight wrong thinking.

 Hebrews 4:12 tell us that “the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.”

Whenever a thought enters our minds, we can apply the litmus test of scripture to determine whether to welcome it as a house guest or take it captive ‘til the thought police arrive.

When our thoughts tell us God doesn’t care, scripture reminds us that he loves us with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 31:3).

When our thoughts invite us to read a steamy novel, watch an inappropriate movie, or gossip, God’s Word encourages us to think on whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and admirable (Philippians 4:8).

When our thoughts tempt us to nurture bitterness and anger, the Word challenges us to “get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice” (Ephesians 4:31).

If we want to be victorious in the battle raging around us, we can’t passively allow ungodly and unbiblical thoughts to waltz into our hearts and take up residence. By arming ourselves with our swords, kidnapping the thoughts that assail us, and bringing them into subjection to the truth of God’s Word, we will win the war in Jesus’ name and for his glory.

 How have you taken your thoughts captive to the obedience of Christ? I invite you to leave a comment below and join the conversation.



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Monday

A Post About Lust

I've never written a post about lust before.

But it was on my mind this morning, because it was on God's mind. He writes about it in James 1:13-15:

"Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither does He tempt any man: But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. Then when lust has conceived, it brings forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, brings forth death."

While we often think of lust in terms of sexual desire, a more biblical definition of lust is

a desire for something that cannot be rightfully satisfied.

This definition certainly applies to any sexual desire that can't be satisfied within the bonds of marriage. It also applies to many other desires that tempt us.

We can lust for power, respect, possessions, relationships, even ministry positions!

Any desire we can't satisfy in a godly way is lust.

Watch the progression of lust in these verses:

1. We are tempted.
2. We are drawn away by our own lust (desire for something that cannot be rightfully satisfied).
3. We are enticed (further ensnared).
4. Lust conceives and brings forth sin. We commit the act we've been thinking about.
5. Our sin brings forth death.  

Here's one example of how a godly woman can be ensnared by lust:

1. I see my friend's beautiful home. It's always clean. There are no piles of dirty clothes, dishes, or children scattered about. I compare it to my own house. I am tempted to covet her home. (temptation)

2. The more I think about how lovely her home looks, the more dissatisfied I become with my own home, family, and life.(drawn away)

3. Anger rises up in me. If I had her house, her husband, her children, her administrative gifts, her diligence and conscientiousness, then my house wouldn't be such a mess! (enticed)

4.  Walking through the door of my own home, I immediately blast the children who are playing happily on the (messy) living room floor, the husband who is resting in the La Z Boy after a long day at work, and the dog, who just happened to be in the same room. I yell, threaten, berate, and, possibly, throw things. (sin)

5. Through my angry words and actions, I have wounded my husband, damaged my children, and frightened the dog. (death).


Is my desire for a clean house sin? No.

But if I want it so badly that I am willing to sin in order to get it, then I have given in to lust.

And lust, when its work is complete, brings forth death.

Thankfully, there's another option.

"Don't be deceived, my dear brothers. Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows" (James 1: 16-17).

It's not wrong to want a husband, friends, obedient children who love God, a husband who is the spiritual leader of my home, a neat house, and/or a productive ministry. These are good and perfect gifts. But we cannot disregard God's principles for godly behavior in order to get them. God will never bless our disobedience.

Is there anything you want that you cannot rightfully (in a godly way) have? I challenge you to surrender it to God and trust Him to give you His "good and perfect gifts" in exchange.





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• Is my situation hopeless?
• If God already knows what he’s going to do, why bother to pray? 
• Why have you allowed this to happen to me? 
• No one appreciates what I do. Why shouldn’t I quit? 

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