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Thursday

Are You Plagued by the Almost-but-not-quite Syndrome?

This is the whale I almost saw in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico.





This is the loggerhead turtle baby I almost saw hatch out of a nest on Edisto Island.

 

Over my lifetime, I've almost been selected to give the speech at my high school graduation, almost won a scholarship to the She Speaks Writer's Conference, almost learned to speak Spanish, and almost mastered the discipline of a daily quiet time.

Almost, but not quite. 

Are you ever plagued by the almost-but-not-quite syndrome?

You almost learn to live in faith not fear.

You almost learn to control your tongue.

You almost learn to respect your husband, your boss, or your coworker.

You almost quit smoking, lose weight, master your anger, quit watching soap operas.

Almost, but not quite.

It comforts me to know the mighty apostle Paul was plagued by the almost-but-not-quite syndrome too. This was his desire: "I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings" (Phil. 3:10).

At the time of this writing, he was stuck in the almost-but-not-quite status. "Not that I have already obtained all this," he says regretfully, "or have already been made perfect."

Like us, he had his eye on the prize, but day after day he fell short. I'm sure he, like us, sometimes felt discouraged, disappointed, and downright disgusted with his failure to arrive. I wonder if he ever felt like giving up? I do sometimes, do you?

If you're struggling with a whale you cannot yet see, take comfort today from Paul's wise words:

 "I  press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus" (Phil 3:12-14).

Will you join me today in forgetting yesterday, setting our eyes on the prize, and trying again, and again, and again -- in God's strength?


"I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength" (Phil. 4:13).






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Monday

Are you mighty or milquetoast? Developing the discipline of spiritual tenacity

She had her teeth sunk in, her feet set, and a determined gleam in her eyes. She would not let go.

On the other side of the t-shirt, I was equally determined. A tug of war ensued. The harder I pulled, the tighter she clamped down. When I pulled to the left, she twisted her body to the right. If I pulled up, she countered by sinking her feet deeper into the carpet. If I let up in the least, she'd shake her head in an instinctive gesture designed wrest her "kill" from my hands. We carried on this way for some time until a distinct ripping sound put an end to the battle.

Polly had won.

She had hung on until she vanquished her foe.

We can all learn a lesson from Polly's example of tenacity.

Dictionary.com defines the quality of being tenacious as "holding fast; keeping a firm hold on," but Oswald Chambers, in the selection dated February 22 in his book My Utmost for His Highest, describes tenacity this way:

"Tenacity is more than endurance, it is endurance combined with the absolute certainty that what we are looking for is going to transpire."

He goes on to say, "Tenacity is more than hanging on, which may be but the weakness of being too afraid to fall off. Tenacity is the supreme effort of a man refusing to believe that his hero is going to be conquered."

His words challenged to me to examine the way I pray.

Do I truly believe my prayers matter?

Do I believe that God "is a rewarder of those who diligently (tenaciously) seek Him?" (Heb. 11:6).

Do I believe nothing is too hard for God? (Jer. 32:17).

Do I believe the prayer of a righteous (wo)man is powerful and effective? (Jas. 5:16).

"Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief!" (Mark 9:24).

Like Polly hung onto the t-shirt with every fiber in her buff-colored body, I want to be spiritually tenacious as I approach the throne of God in prayer. I want to be like Jacob, who wrestled with God all night long and declared, 

"I will not let you go until you bless me!"

and when circumstances don't go the way I hope, I want to say with Job, 

"Though He slay me, yet will I trust in Him."  

 May we heed the challenge of Oswald Chambers,
"Then comes the call to spiritual tenacity, not to hang on and do nothing, but to work deliberately on the certainty that God is not going to be worsted."

Whatever you are wrestling through today, please don't give up. Pray in faith, believing.

May we be like Jacob, whom, after a long night of wrestling with God, came away with a blessing that continues to impact the world for Christ even today.



 "Remain spiritually tenacious.









You want to connect with God, but in the craziness of life, it’s just not happening. You want practical, biblical answers to situations you face every day, but you don’t have hours to pore over Scripture.

You need a resource that answers the questions you’re afraid to ask out loud. Questions like:

• Is my situation hopeless?
• If God already knows what he’s going to do, why bother to pray? 
• Why have you allowed this to happen to me? 
• No one appreciates what I do. Why shouldn’t I quit? 

Each devotion begins with a Facetime question and ends with a biblical answer wrapped in a modern day parable. Like a spiritual power bar, Hungry for God … Starving for Time is packed with enough scriptural nutrition to get you through the day. Wherever you are—in break rooms, carpool lines, or wherever you can snatch five minutes of quiet reflection—Hungry for God … Starving for Time, 5-Minute Devotions for Busy Women is for you.



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