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Showing posts with label How to make decisions. Show all posts

Sunday

Avoiding the Scary Places



There’s a scary place in my neighborhood. When I’m walking alone, I avoid it. Especially in the dark. 
  
I live in a small subdivision with two long streets and lots of cul de sacs. All the cul de sacs are identical – two houses on each side of the street and a circle of three homes at the end. Except one. 

Instead of three cute houses snuggled up like kids around a campfire, this one has only one house with a big, dark patch of tangled woods beside it. A path of sorts leads into the brush. 

The first time I walked past this spot I thought, this would be the perfect place for a crime. I won’t describe all the scary details I imagined, but suffice it to say that I don’t walk to the end of that cul de sac unless my husband is with me. When I reach the point in the road where the light doesn’t shine, I turn around. 

And sometimes I glance back, just to make sure no one's stalking me. 

Most obvious to me in the pre-dawn morning or the dark of night is the very clear line between light and darkness. At the edge of the curve, a streetlight shines. Beyond the curve, all is dark. No murky, grey, no-man’s land buffers the two, just light and dark. 

Life, unfortunately, isn’t always as clear cut as the light in this cul de sac. We can’t see a visible line separating our bad decisions from our good ones. No lightbeam divides a satisfying, productive life from a train wreck.  

And although some choices are more obvious than others, sometimes the journey from good to bad isn’t a single giant step over a clearly-marked line, but a series of small steps on an increasingly-slippery path. 

If the path of life isn’t clearly marked, how do we navigate it? 


Psalm 119:105 tells us: “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” Because it’s easy to be deceived into thinking something’s good when in reality it’s bad, God has given us his Word to help us. 

Money isn’t bad, unless we let it become our master. God’s Word reminds us, “You cannot serve both God and money" (Luke 6:13). 

Relationships aren’t bad, unless we love someone more than we love God. God’s Word encourages us, “Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength” (Deut. 6:5). 

Possessions, power, and prestige aren’t bad, unless we make them our idols. God’s Word warns us, “Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him” (1 John 2:15). 

God's gift of family isn’t bad, unless we serve our family to the neglect of serving God. God’s Word cautions us, "Anyone who loves his father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me” (Mat. 10:37). 

On the surface, these things look good, yet without the wisdom of God to keep them in their proper perspective, they can lead us down dark paths far away from God’s best. Talking and listening to God through daily Bible reading and prayer can turn the darkness of confusion into the dawn of clarity. Like twin spotlights, they expose the lies of the world, the flesh, and the devil. 

We’ve all found ourselves in dark places, as I do on my morning walks. Thankfully, instead of leaving us to find a way out on our own, God has given us his Word to guide us in “paths of righteousness for his name's sake.” 

If you’re in a dark place, God wants to shine his light into your life. Seek God’s wisdom every day by reading his Word. Ask him to speak to you. And when he does, do what he tells you to do. 

If you’re not in a dark place, thank God and make sure you never get there by seeking the light of God’s Word every day.

Now it’s your turn. How has God used his Word to direct your path? Leave a comment below and bless us all.

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Wednesday

Jesus' Foolproof Plumb Line for Making Decisions



Every day we make decisions—hundreds of them. 

How should I spend my time and money? 

With which organization should I volunteer? 

Whom shall I invite over for dinner? 

Should we remodel the kitchen or go on vacation? 

Some choices are easy to make and others are agonizing. An over-thinker by nature, I often struggle with decisions. In my Bible reading today I found a plumb line we can use to guide every choice. This simple sentence from the life of Jesus cuts to the heart of every decision we’ll make in our lives:

“Then Jesus went through the towns and villages, teaching as he made his way to Jerusalem” (Luke 13:22). 

This sentence appears smack dab in the middle of Jesus’ ministry, months or perhaps a year or more before he died for the sins of mankind on a cross outside Jerusalem. Yet the shadow of the cross had already stretched across his agenda. No matter where he went, no matter what he did, it was always there on the horizon. 

Jesus’ ultimate goal, the driving force of his earthly life was give his life as a ransom for many (Mat. 20:28). He held every decision up to the plumb line of this ultimate purpose. When Satan tempted him with power and wealth, he said no, because saying yes would hinder his purpose. When the people of Jerusalem wanted to make him king, he said no, because saying yes would hinder his purpose. When he prayed in the Garden, “Father, if it be your will, let this cup pass from me,” he added, “not my will, but yours be done,” because deliverance from the cross would hinder his purpose. 

We, too, have a purpose. The over-arching goal of every Christian’s life should be, as the Westminster Catechism states, “to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever.” Against this plumb line we can hold any decision we need to make and gain a clear sense of direction. 

Buy a bigger house or give more money to God’s work? 

Accept a leadership position at a secular non-profit or volunteer at my church? 

Invite only my closest friends over for dinner or step out of my comfort zone and include my unsaved neighbors? 

Watch that movie that pushes the envelope or change the channel? 

Join the gossip at work or say something positive, change the subject, or walk away? 

Vent my anger or take a deep breath, pray for patience, and respond kindly? 


When we “make (our) way to Jerusalem,” we live with a singular purpose—to advance the kingdom of God. Thankfully, unlike our Savior, God seldom requires us to lay down our physical life for his kingdom, but, like Christ, God will use our obedience to accomplish his work in the world. 

So the next time you face a decision, hold up your plumb line. Ask yourself, how can I best glorify God? And there you will find your answer. 



Now it’s your turn. How do you make decisions with an eye toward God’s purpose for your life? Leave a comment below and share your thoughts.



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